Maintaining Sobriety

What Is Sobriety?

Struggles with substances can manifest in various ways. For some, it’s a daily consumption, for others, it involves binge use, and many have faced multiple challenges in their lives due to their substance struggles. What’s important to understand is that there are numerous reasons behind substance abuse. Some individuals turn to substances after experiencing trauma, others grapple with their mental health, and some use substances as a way to cope with stress. In many cases, alcohol becomes an escape for those seeking relief. Statistics tell us that about 10% of all adults in the U.S. face substance use issues. While seeking treatment, a significant percentage, between 80-95%, report maintaining their sobriety nine months post-treatment. According to the National Institutes of Health (NIH), the relapse rate for substance use is about 40-60%. However, it’s essential not to view a relapse as a failure, but rather as an indicator of what still needs attention on the path to sobriety. Addiction is a lifelong disorder with no known cure, underscoring the importance of continued care. The first step toward recovery is acknowledging that you have a problem, and the second is the desire for change. Remember that no one can achieve sobriety for you; you are the key to your transformation. But I am here to provide support and equip you with the tools you need to rebuild your life and maintain your sobriety.


Symptoms of Addiction

1. Using too much: When you take more of a substance or use it for longer than you should.

2. Can’t stop trying: When you’ve tried to quit or cut down but can’t.

3. Lots of time spent: Spending too much time getting, using, or recovering from the substance.

4. Really wanting it: When you really, really want to use the substance.

5. Problems at work or home: When your substance use causes issues with your job, school, or family.

6. Problems with people: Having trouble with friends or family because of your substance use.

7. Giving up fun stuff: Stopping activities you used to enjoy because of the substance.

8. Risky situations: Using the substance in dangerous situations.

9. Ignoring health issues: Continuing to use it even if it hurts your body or mind.

10. Needing more: Needing more of the substance to get the same effect or getting less from the same amount.

11. Feeling bad when not using: Feeling sick or bad when you try to stop using it.

How I Support You In Your Sobriety?

As a therapist, I employ person-centered and CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) approaches to tackle substance abuse. Extensive research supports the effectiveness of CBT in helping individuals maintain sobriety. During therapy, we work on identifying and changing false beliefs and unproductive thinking patterns that contribute to substance abuse.

Additionally, a crucial part of addressing substance use is understanding your ‘why.’ Everyone has their unique reasons. For example, someone may use substances as a way to escape from difficulties. In therapy, we focus on developing healthy coping skills as alternatives to substance use. These coping skills can include exercise, listening to music, taking a walk, and many more. The goal is to find healthy ways to achieve the same rewards you used to get from substances, reducing the need for them.

Furthermore, I integrate a person-centered approach to create a non-judgmental and safe environment using unconditional positive regard. Often, substance use continues due to negative self-perception and harsh self-talk, which can lead to feelings of shame and guilt. Using the person-centered approach, I aim to create an environment where you can be vulnerable and gain a more compassionate and understanding view of yourself..

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