Emotional regulation

What Is Emotional Regulation?

Controlling emotions can be a real challenge for many, and it’s often easier said than done. You may have encountered phrases like ‘just feel better’ or ‘stop acting like that,’ which oversimplify complex mental health struggles. Conditions like anxiety and depression have become somewhat mainstream, but their true impact is often minimized or invalidated. The difference between regular worry and clinical anxiety is significant. Anxiety involves excessive, persistent concerns and often has a physical component. This can make it incredibly tough to ‘just relax,’ as some might suggest. Similarly, depression is distinct from ordinary sadness. People may tell you to ‘snap out of it’ or label you a ‘downer,’ but clinical depression goes far beyond temporary sadness. Unfortunately, the word ‘depression’ has been diluted to the point where those who genuinely grapple with it aren’t always understood in their battle to manage depressive episodes. When you lack the coping skills to navigate these emotions, life can feel overwhelming and leave you feeling powerless. In therapy, our focus will be on helping you regain a sense of control and empowerment over your emotional well-being.


Do you feel like you

  • Worry a lot

  • Feel scared or nervous

  • Have trouble sleeping

  • Get sweaty hands in situations

  • Experience a rapid heartbeat in situations

  • Have trouble concentrating

  • Feel on edge or jumpy

Or

  • Feel very sad or down

  • Do not enjoy things you used to like

  • Feel very tired or have low energy

  • Eat or sleep more or less than usual

  • Feel guilty or worthless

  • Have trouble focusing or making decisions

  • Think about death or suicide

  • Feel like the future is dark Then you are in the right place!

How I will help you

In therapy, I combine the person-centered and cognitive behavioral approaches to help manage emotional regulation. Building a trusting, non-judgmental relationship is the first step. Through the person-centered approach, I create an environment where you can comfortably share and feel validated in your experiences.

Additionally, I use the ABC model from the cognitive behavioral approach to address difficult emotions. This model believes that our beliefs, not events themselves, influence our behaviors. For instance, feeling worthless after a breakup is not caused by the breakup itself but by the belief ‘I am worthless.’ Our beliefs about ourselves, others, the environment, or situations shape our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

In therapy, we’ll focus on challenging these beliefs and transforming them into ones that better serve you.

Are You Ready For Change?

Set up a free call so I can learn more about you and how I can assist you.